Use Your Mouth for Amazing Sex

When I ask students, “What is a four-letter word for intercourse that ends in the letter K?” I listen to several of them stumble over the word fuck before I give the correct answer: T-A-L-K. The goal of intercourse is to come together, not to cum together.

While reading through this book, I want you to take breaks and put it down—to have sex, yes, but also to discuss the emotions and ideas that the words and pictures stimulate. Ask your partner to consider alternate positions and suggest ways to make a standing vaginal position work as an anal position on the couch. Discuss ways to exile monotony from the bedroom—though I admit that every now and then, vanilla ice cream tastes good—especially when it’s licked off warm skin.

So grab your baton—whether it’s a vibrating sex toy or a real-life penis—and create a sexual symphony with you as the composer, musician, conductor, and most ardent fan.