The Role of the Mind

“Mind-blowing” sex reminds us that a great amount of sexual pleasure is generated above the belt. Though many men would rather have their cocks blown, and many women might be thinking, “Please, blow my mind since you can’t seem to find my clitoris,” the brain remains our primary sex organ. People can think themselves into monk-like celibacy or wish themselves into horniness—“mind over splatter,” if you will. At first, it might seem odd to read about sexual positions, but it makes sense: Your mind must guide your body until muscle memory takes over. Just as the UNCF articulates so well: The mind is a terrible thing to waste. And according to sexually satisfied people everywhere, it’s not such a bad thing to blow.